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On a practical level, nothing alleviates
suffering like reaching out to another person who is suffering.
Go and help, be of service if only in the smallest way. Each of us feels
timid about reaching out to others; our society speaks of community
but mostly we drift like atoms in a void. It isn't easy to reach over
the walls built from around our isolation,
but any gesture - whatever you feel safe to do - is a step toward healing.
After the Pentagon and World Trade Centre attacks, thousands of citizens
from all walks of life volunteered to assist in search, rescue, support,
and other efforts. Hundreds of thousands responded almost instantly
to the call for blood donors. It would be impossible to single anyone
out, but I was moved by one woman who rode her bicycle down to the disaster
site in order to find her niece and nephew, which, miraculously, she
did. The next day, she was drawn again to the site - as so many people
said they were - by an invisible force. She found a few other women
who also felt the call to help, so they started making sandwiches for
the rescue teams, at first a few at a time, but these quickly grew to
be hundreds. Within few days, she was managing entire truck deliveries
of meals and leading dozens of volunteers.
"I had an extraordinary experience, one that I hope won't be misunderstood,"
she later said. "This turned into the best five days of my life."
The reason tragedy turned to light for her was that she
made a heart connection with others; a human thread now linked her
to the life we all share. It is this connection we crave the most.
But it is up to us to find the will to weave the first strand.
- from The Deeper Wound: Recovering the
Soul from Fear and Suffering, by Deepak Chopra
If you can't find a local branch of the charity or organization you would
like to help in the list below or in this section
of This Is A War.com, telephone or email them and ask if they know
of any local branches or similar organizations near you or if they can
recommend people to contact who would know of organizations near you that
could use your help. And if you can't find an organization near you, start
your own!
Your help is needed throughout the world to let others recover happiness
from pain.
In helping others, you not only contribute to your world becoming a better
place, but you can have a whole lot of fun. I'm
serious. It doesn't matter how young or old you are, how sick, how short,
how tall, whether you're talented or not - you have everything to give.
This isn't altruism; it's sheer selfishness. The joy you will get from
contributing will one of the most intense pleasures you will ever know.
- the creators of This Is A War.com
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