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By Adam Khan

Americans celebrate Abraham Lincoln's birthday on February 12 for a very good reason.

Lincoln was one of the few great men who really was great. Before he became president, Lincoln spent twenty years as an unsuccessful Illinois lawyer - at least he was unsuccessful in financial terms. But when you measure the good he did, he was very rich indeed.

Legends are often untrue, but Lincoln was the real thing. George Washington never chopped down a cherry tree, but Abraham Lincoln was honest. During his years as a lawyer, there were hundreds of documented examples of his honesty and decency.

For example, Lincoln didnít like to charge people much who were as poor as he was. Once a man sent him twenty-five dollars, but Lincoln sent him back ten of it, saying he was being too generous.

He was known at times to convince his clients to settle their issue out of court, saving them a lot of money, and earning himself nothing. An old woman in dire poverty, the widow of a Revolutionary soldier, was charged $200 for getting her $400 pension. Lincoln sued the pension agent and won the case for the old woman.

He didnít charge her for his services and, in fact, paid her hotel bill and gave her money to buy a ticket home!

He and his associate once prevented a con man from gaining possession of a tract of land owned by a mentally ill girl. The case took fifteen minutes. Lincolnís associate came to divide up their fee, but Lincoln reprimanded him. His associate argued that the girlís brother had agreed on the fee ahead of time, and he was completely satisfied.

ďThat may be,Ē said Lincoln, ďbut I am not satisfied. That money comes out of the pocket of a poor, demented girl; and I would rather starve than swindle her in this manner. You return half the money at least, or Iíll not take a cent of it as my share.Ē

He was a fool, perhaps, by certain standards. He didnít have much, and it was his own fault. But he was a good human being by anyoneís standards and Iím glad his birthday is celebrated.

Honesty makes you feel good about yourself and creates trust in others. It improves your relationship with yourself and with others. Itís not much in fashion these days to talk about the benefits of honesty and decency, but the benefits are there and they are valuable and worth the trouble.

Lincoln didnít talk much about religion, even with his best friends, and he didnít belong to any church. But he once confided to a friend that his religious code was the same as an old man he knew in Indiana, who said, ďWhen I do good, I feel good, and when I do bad, I feel bad, and thatís my religion.Ē

Honesty. It may be corny, but itís the finest force for good in the world, and it always will be. Do some honest good in the world. You can do some honest good right now by sharing your favorite positive, life-affirming, difference-making web pages with your friends. It's easy: Just copy this address and paste it into an email message.

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